True Compassion

 

It is Lent, a time when we self-reflect on our lives, the ways that we have fallen short, and understand why Jesus’ Walk to the cross means so much to our sinful selves.  This Lenten season, we will be focusing on the values listed in Colossians 3:12. Every time I read this verse, I cannot help but look at my daily life and question myself if I am ‘clothing myself’ the way Paul has asked us to.  When I do this, the reflection shows definite room for improvement.  In the next few weeks, we will reflect together, see where we fall short, ask for forgiveness, and take steps to walk closer to Jesus.

The first value shared in this special verse is compassion.   Defined, compassion is when one can appreciate or feel someone else’s pain or suffering and takes action to help alleviate it.  There are two parts of this word that my focus turns to.  The first is feeling someone else’s suffering.  In compassion, I believe that part of the definition means to do so without judgement.  That can be difficult to do.  Often, we may feel someone else’s pain, but it can come with a sense of “they got themselves into this mess because ____________,” judging.  Self-reflecting, I cannot say that my compassion has not had some sense of judgement at times.  Maybe not outwardly, but in my heart.  True compassion does not come with judgement.  True compassion comes with understanding. 

Our dear Jesus lived out compassion at the highest level and is a wonderful role model for us to follow.  Did he ever criticize the woman at the well?  He pointed out the facts and moved on, not dwelling on her sins, but giving her living water.  Did he condemn Mary Magdalene for the demons she had once possessed?  No, He welcomed her into His ministry.  There was no judgement, only true compassion.  What does that mean for us, my friends?  Our compassion should follow suit. 

The second part of the definition takes action.  It is not having this level of understanding or feeling someone else’s suffering (that is empathy).  The second part states, “takes action to help alleviate the suffering.”  It means doing something.  It means stepping out in faith.  How often do we not take action because we do not know what to do or say, leaving it to the next person the afflicted person meets to take action?  Self-reflecting?  Too often to count. 

Once again, Jesus teaches us so much in so many ways.  Back to the woman at the well.  He did not just have empathy for her, He gave her the greatest gift – Himself!  He gave her the sustenance she needed to live!  Mary Magdalene was invited into the apostolic circle.  Jesus had choices just as we have choices in these types of situations.  He chose action!  So often, I may acknowledge, but forget, or worse, choose not to take action.

Action is not difficult.  It is having a conversation, writing a note, offering a helping hand.  It is taking of our time, talent or treasures and putting them into action!  The world is full of people who need help, who need us to be compassionate.  Now is the time, my friends!  Now is the time to feel others’ hurt, others’ pain, and then take action to help.  Let us walk in Jesus’ steps and have true compassion!  Let us walk in simple faith!

Dearest Jesus, thank you for modeling the value of compassion.  As I reflect, I know I am not always modeling this behavior.  Please guide me to understand without judgement and to take action! Amen.