Fruit of Goodness

 

Here we are again, my friends, on our Fruits of the Spirit journey.  This week has our reflection pointed to goodness.  Often, kindness and goodness can be seen as similar.  Yet, the difference is between you and me.  How so?  Kindness is what we show and how we treat others – YOU.  Goodness is how I behave, actioning what is right and with a level of integrity – ME. 

Goodness offers us the opportunity to not only be nice to others but to also do what is right.  I can hear y’all saying, “Of course, I do what is right, Susan!”  I believe, if we truly self-examine, we may find that our actions are not always what is right or good.  To act with a level of integrity, a level of goodness, can be easier said than done.  Our actions, as much what we do as what we do not do, dictate how we live our lives.  What does goodness look like in the eyes of Jesus?

·         Honesty: Living our lives with honesty at the forefront.  Honesty needs to begin with us.  This means looking at ourselves, our gaps, and having a sense of humility that we have areas where we sin, and where we need to be better – for God and ourselves.

·         Integrity: Doing what we say we are going to do.  If we sit in a pew on Sunday morning and profess that we are Christians and do what is right, then our actions as we leave the church doors should reflect that.  Taking a strong look at this may reveal this is easier said than done.

·         Stand Firm: Standing up for what is right.  It takes a lot to be the ‘one person’ to stand up for what is right.  It is much easier to go along with the crowd.  Nobody modeled this better for us than Jesus.  He always stood up for the righteous thing, the Godly thing, those who were not able to stand up for themselves.  This is incredibly difficult to achieve.

The above examples of goodness are not easy.  Challenging ourselves to truly reflect on our actions as they are described above may lead us to realize we have work to do.  We SHOULD have work to do!  We are sinners, my friends.  The only way we will be able to move forward in goodness is by the grace of God.  Jesus walks with us every day to help us attain the goodness for which we are striving.  Living in goodness will feel good.  When we are honest about our gaps and work towards being better; when we live with integrity every day; when we stand up for a situation so it will mirror what Jesus wants – all those examples will provide you with goodness in your soul.  Let us step up, in simple faith, that we can do this – with the grace of the One who can help us – Jesus!

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Holy Spirit, be with me as I work to integrate goodness into my life.  Let my actions reflect the love that I have for Jesus and that He has for me.  May goodness radiate from me and ensure that I am living the life I want to live for Jesus.  Amen!

Fruit of Kindness

 

Turn on the news, open up a newspaper, or scroll through a news service and I believe we can all agree that we consistently see examples where kindness has been replaced with judgement, hostility or even violence.  We can walk through our days experiencing people’s inability (including ourselves) to show kindness to others.  It seems that if you disagree with another individual, if you do not have the same beliefs or values, it provides a person with a clear path to be nasty to that person – either through thoughts, words, or actions.

In walks our Fruit of the Spirit for this week, kindness.  You may be thinking, “I’m a kind person,” and you very may well be a kind person.  The question becomes WHO are you being kind to?  Are you kind to your friends, showing up for them and performing kind acts for them?  Are you kind to your family members, ensuring that they have the best version of you in all their needs?  That is great and it is important for you to share kindness with those closest to you.

I believe the challenge the Holy Spirit asks of us to bring kindness to ALL our interactions, even with those that we may disagree with, have different value systems, or even those we would consider to be our enemies.  Now there is a challenge I face every day – how about you?  Why should we show kindness to those that do not show kindness to us?  We have the best example of that in Jesus.  Think of how kind He was to those around Him that may not have believed He was the Savior.  His kindness, His generosity – it is all there for us to use as examples.

He respected ALL people, not just His family and the disciples.  He believed each person was created by God for God’s journey.  Shouldn’t we share that same level of respect and consideration?  He showed compassion, even to the least of God’s creatures.  There are times when we cannot show compassion or empathy to our neighbor!  Jesus shows us that even the smallest lamb deserves our compassion.  Jesus did not just ‘think’ about kindness, He acted on it!  He healed, He listened, He performed miracles – for ALL people.  Jesus showed us that acting out kindness to ALL people is why the Holy Spirit is within us.

Let us move from performing Random Acts of Kindness to Intentional Acts of Kindness.  Seek out the person you may be struggling to have a relationship with.  Reflect upon the folks that you may have shared sharp words of disagreement or those who may have ‘done you wrong’ and you have decided to disassociate yourself with.  How can you life out Jesus’ love through kindness with those people?  Your mind may be telling you, ‘no way.’  Let your heart and soul share with you a ‘way.’  Have simple faith that the intentional act of kindness is the Holy Spirit working within you to bring Jesus’ kindness to all.  We can do this.  I have faith in us!

Video that complements this post:  Fruit of Kindness

Holy Spirit, guide me to perform Intentional Acts of Kindness, especially to those that I may not consider a friend or a family member.  Help me to see the value they bring to this world, as God sees their value.  May I be respectful and compassionate to all people I meet.  Amen.

Fruit of Patience

 

Patience!  A word each time I see it slaps me in the face.  I would welcome the feedback of “You are so patient.”  Yet, I cannot say that has been on anyone’s lips – both personally and professionally.  I have gaps, and patience is one of them.  I have attempted to bring a stronger sense of patience into my life, as a mother, as a wife, and as a working professional.  Looking back upon each of those roles, there have been moments where I failed, miserably.

This reared its ugly head in a couple of situations – typically when things are moving as fast as I am moving.  At home, this can show up when I am entertaining.  Everything has a place and time.  If it is not as I ‘planned,’ my lack of patience shines through – like a spotlight.   Those around me?  They prefer to hide under the nearest chair.  At work, it came in lack of my ‘planned goal’ not being achieved.  If things were not getting done, that meant we needed to do more and do it quicker.  By recognizing this negative response in myself, I provided my staff to share the words ‘Jersey Mode.’  When those words were shared with me, I knew I was working too quickly and needed to step back in patience.

Having patience means having to rely on God.  When the Holy Spirit touches us and provides us opportunities to show patience, we need to take these opportunities as gifts of learning and growth.  Patience means we are going to remain calm during adversity.  It means we are empathetic; it means we are not impulsive in our reactions.  The situations above did not exude a sense of calm; I was reacting purely impulsively.  Patience is a fruit God gives to us to deal with earthly circumstances.  It helps us and it helps those around us.

Where can we practice patience?  By turning to God.  My friends, the realization that He is in control, working for our benefit even though we may not recognize it, can bring us patience.  Patience means it will not happen in our time, but in God’s time!  Patience means we will continue to put our simple faith in the fact that God is working on our behalf, even when we cannot see anything happening.  Patience means we respond with a trust in God, not a trust in ourselves.

When we need patience, go to God first.  Ask for His hand as you walk a difficult journey or a journey of waiting.  Ask the Holy Spirit to touch your heart and soul so that you can respond to others in God’s light.  Ask for a calm voice and a steady process of hope.  It is there for all of us; all we need to do is ask for God’s help for patience!

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Holy Spirit, help me to recognize when my patience is wearing thin.  Provide me the nudge to seek God and ask for endurance, trust, and hope.  In your name I pray.  Amen!

Fruit of Peace

 

Our journey continues through the fruits of the spirit as we explore peace.  Peace is defined differently among people.  Whether utter silence or complete chaos, people can experience peace.  Personally, this word has been defined by me numerous ways throughout my life.  As a young adult, I wanted peace to calm my anxious thoughts about a new job.  As a new mom, it was definitely the peace of silence.  As a working woman, the peace I sought was the ability to successfully balance all that was delivered to my plate.  Although what peace looked like in each phase of my life may have changed, what anchored all of those definitions was peace for my soul.  When my soul was at peace, I was able to attain the peace I sought.

We may believe that peace can be attained through the outside entities around us – a calming environment, a stress-free vacation, a checklist that is complete.  Those external factors are quickly replaced with direct opposites in our lives.  The calming environment becomes chaos, the stress-free vacation has a hiccup, the checklist gets ‘one more thing added.’  Peace is replaced by a number of conflicting emotions.  When my soul was at peace versus the world around me, I realized that I had met the goal, the peace I was looking for.

So how do we gain a peaceful soul?  There is truly only one way that is achieved – by having peace with God.  Peace from God is freely given to us through the Holy Spirit.  The Holy Spirit touches our souls and gives to us the peace that God wants in our lives – the peace that passes all understanding.  As humans, we may resist gaining peace from God.  We may find getting peace from God too simple or too easy.  God provides us the ‘easy’ peace because He wants our souls to be rooted in Him.  This means that in order for us to have a peaceful soul, we need to trust God.  Now there is the trick question, do you trust God?  Stop before answering! 

Do you go to God with all your decisions in your life?  Do you accept His answers?  Do you trust Him with the chaos in your life?  Do you have complete confidence that in the messy parts of your life, God is present and is walking you through the mess to cleanse you?  When we can get to that part of living, regardless of the circumstances, we can trust God is with us, forgiving us, directing us, and loving us.   Then we can experience His incredible peace.  His peace washes over us in happiness and sadness.  His peace finds root in our soul and every part of our body can feel it.  When peace seems to evade you, look to where you are putting your trust.  Have Simple Faith!  Trust in God!  Enjoy a Peaceful Soul!

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Holy Spirit, remind me of God’s peace for my soul.  Help me to trust all that He is doing in my life and let peace wash over me.  Amen!

Fruit of Joy

 

The fruit of JOY!  There is nothing better for our souls than joy.  It is better than good; better than great.  It is that deeper and richer feeling we have when joy permeates our being.  We are blessed to have that feeling because the Holy Spirit resides inside us.  There are numerous times and situations that can bring us happiness.  I firmly believe to have true joy means that Jesus is with us.  The reason behind that is that there can be joy in difficult times.  Remember James 1:2-3?

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.”

When I think back upon my life, was I able to consider joy during trials?  To be honest, I am not certain.  Yet, I do remember two distinct moments when joy replaced sadness in my life.  Both of these scenarios were when I lost my parents.  It has been 25 years since my dad passed.  We did not anticipate his leaving us so soon, and as sad as I was to see him leave earth, the joy I felt in my heart is that he was in heaven with Jesus – singing with the angels.  The same feeling of joy came over me as I watched my mom pass into her heavenly home, almost ten months ago.  As difficult as it was to watch her pass to Jesus, my heart was joyful because she so yearned to see Jesus’ face.  I knew the joy she wanted.

Joy can creep up on us and provide us moments of peace during moments of trial.   The joy that comes with challenges is reflected in our true understanding that Jesus is with us, the Holy Spirit is in us.  When we fully experience the fruit of joy, we know that walking with us is the One who can give us certainty amongst the uncertain; the One who can give us purpose amongst the confusion.  Falling into the Holy Spirit’s arms of joy, and knowing we carry that joy within us, assists us in sharing our joy with others.

During my battle with cancer, there were times I felt joyful.  When I finally realized that Jesus was with me, fighting my battle with me, ensuring we were in this together, joy filled my heart.  My head may have been bald, but my heart was full of joy!  Friends, our joy, the joy found in the Holy Spirit, can fill us up when we least expect it.  Our hope and joy and anchored in Jesus.  What do we need to do to have this joy?  Have simple faith that He has freely given joy to each and every one of us.  By His death and resurrection, we can live in the joy of a heavenly home!  May joy fill your soul!

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Holy Spirit, thank you for filling my soul with joy.  May I share this joy that you so freely provide me with to all that I meet.  May they know that my joy, in all circumstances, comes from you.  Amen!

Fruit of Love

I would like to take a couple of sentences to say, “Thank You”!  April 7^th noted the 13^th year I have been writing my Simple Faith for Today weekly blog.  Started as a personal release for my own thoughts on the impact of Jesus on our lives, through your continued support, you have inspired me to write on topics that have uplifted all of us!  I appreciate your wonderful comments and look forward to the years ahead, with God’s grace.

As a suggestion from my friend Mary, the next few weeks will focus on the Fruits of the Spirit.  We will highlight each of the wonderful fruits that the Holy Spirit has placed in our lives.  What better way than to start with LOVE!  The fruit of love can span numerous aspects of our lives.  The word love tends to bring reflection of those close to us, our spouses, significant others, immediate family members, etc.  We are supposed to love them, they are family!  Yet, what does that love look like?  How are we supposed to share this love with family?  It looks different for each person, each family.  Exploring what this looks like for you is the goal.  How do you express your love to your family members?  Are there areas where you can improve what love looks like for those closest to you? 

There is also love expressed to ourselves.  I hear so often, “You need to love yourself before you can love others.”  I have always had a hard time with that statement – it seems very self-centered.  But I can understand that if we are not able to accept ourselves for who we are, the good and the ugly parts of ourselves, it will be hard to accept that in others, to love that in others.  We are all imperfect.  Celebrating those imperfections is part of the love experience.  Looking inward to who we are and understanding our imperfections and our sinful nature gives us the capacity to be less judgmental and more empathetic with those around us. 

Speaking of those around us, loving our neighbors is a charge that comes directly from Jesus.  “Love God with all your heart, soul, and mind.  Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22: 37-39) Ah, the words of Jesus piercing our hearts and souls.  This should be easy enough, right?  Yet, I challenge you to think of times when you may be frustrated and angry with those you meet.  Is the fruit of love emanating from you?  Are you reflecting God’s love for you to others?  I can very definitively state that there have been times when I have not behaved and showered those around me with love.  Reflecting upon the fruit of love provides us an opportunity to determine where we struggle most with love.  Is it loving all aspects of yourself?  Is it loving your family members, those you may take for granted?  Is it loving your neighbor, the strangers you may meet?

This is an opportunity for all of us to answer the following question:  Where can I improve sharing my love to others as Jesus shared His love for me?  Take the moment to reflect and make a commitment to move forward in love – the love that Jesus wants us to share through the Holy Spirit that He so richly gave to us.  You can do it!  Just have simple faith!

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Holy Spirit, continue to ignite love within my heart and provide me with the knowledge of how I can improve sharing that love with others.  Show me the path to showing others the fruit of love.  Amen! 

Renewed Heart

 

Halleluiah!  Happy Easter.  The day we have been waiting for is here.  Christ is Risen!  I adore the hymns of Easter.  The hope and energy that surrounds those words singing from the rafters leaves me walking on air as I exit the sanctuary.  I am almost certain that is the way the women must have felt when they met Jesus on the path that first Easter morning!  The energy seems as if life starts all over again.  And it does!

Holy Week brings us such insights into Jesus’ walk.  From the temple in Jerusalem to the cross at Golgotha, walking in Jesus’ steps can bring sadness and despair.  When that rock is rolled in front of the tomb, closing Jesus’ body inside, the world became dark.  Our world can seem like that as well.  When sadness and despair rains upon us, it can seem as if we are in the darkest place of the world.  Sadness and despair can be driven by external circumstances, such as physical pain, relationship suffering, or death of loved ones.  Sadness and despair can also be driven by our internal circumstances such as leading a sinful life that we cannot break hold of.

My friends, the good news is found today, at Easter.  As our verse for today shares, our sadness and despair, whatever may cause it, is buried with Jesus in the tomb.  When Jesus was raised from death to a new life, we too live our new life.  The weight of our sin is lifted, from our shoulders to Jesus’ shoulders.  Our sadness and despair can break free from our hearts and given to Jesus.  With His love, mercy, and grace, we know that we are saved.  The light that comes with Jesus’ resurrection is the light that we live – new every day.  “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:  The old has gone, the new is here!”  2 Corinthians 5:17.

May Jesus fill your heart and your soul.  May you feel the new life that He has given you; may it fill you with hope and joy.  May His blood that was shed on the cross, fill your veins with love.  May you know that your sadness and despair can be replaced with happiness and shouts of Halleluiah!  Our hearts are renewed as we continue to bring Jesus into our lives.  Each day that we worship Him, He fills us with His blessings.  “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.  They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:22-23.  Sing His praises.  Live in His light.  Surround yourself with the newness that only Jesus can bring.

On this Easter, walk in your renewed heart of wonder.  Have simple faith that Jesus is always with you.  Happy Easter!

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Dearest Jesus, thank you for fulfilling God’s prophecy.  Because of Your death and resurrection, we are new in life with You.  May we be reminded of this goodness each and every day.  Praise be to You!  Amen.

Joyful Heart

 

Palm Sunday!  There were many hearts that I wanted to write about this Palm Sunday.  I chose a Joyful Heart to God!  When I read any of the Gospel’s account of Palm Sunday, I can’t help but smile as I read how the people of Jesus’ time welcomed him into Jerusalem.  Although His entrance was on a meager donkey, the King of Kings received the praises that He so justly deserved.  How wonderful it must have been to be among the crowds who were spreading their cloaks and waving palm branches high in the sky!  How happy they all must have been. 

Being happy tends to be associated with a certain situation.  We can be happy about many things, a situation that leaned in our favor, a compliment, recognition, etc.  All of these and many more can bring happiness to our lives.  Joy is an emotion so much richer than happiness.  Joy is deeper and more internalized.  Times in our lives can bring happiness to the forefront, but when have you felt true joy?

Our joy is anchored on the shoulders of Jesus.  Knowing that unconditional love, unconditional acceptance and forgiveness of sins come from the One who entered Jerusalem on a donkey can bring true joy.  That knowledge brings a joyful heart to God.  That level of joy is rooted in fertile soil, bringing rich growth to our lives.  If you have experienced joy, you know that it sets your heart on fire.  Joy grows from within you; happiness happens to you.

When I reflect on when joy seeped from my soul, it was when I married my husband with God a strong part of our relationship.  It was when I saw my children confirmed, knowing that God was planted firmly in their hearts.  There was joy when my grandchildren were baptized/dedicated.  A smile crossed my lips on those occasions, but I also remember crying tears of joy.  The emotion was something deeper, something richer.

Our joy comes from the trust and simple faith we have in Jesus.  It is seen not just in times of goodness, but it also evident in challenges.  James 1:2 states, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds.”  Joy during trials?  YES!  Even in those times, even more so, we feel Jesus’ unconditional love, acceptance and forgiveness of sins.  Joy sets our heart on fire.  Although we will face difficulties, we have joy in knowing that God is there with us, walking right beside us.

On this Palm Sunday, may we share our joy for Jesus as we sing “Hosanna in the Highest.”  May the joy that fills our hearts be shared with Jesus not just on Palm Sunday, but every day.  His mercy, grace and blessings are worthy of our joyful praises.

Video that complements this post:  Joyful Heart

Dearest Jesus, Hosanna in the Highest!  We thank you for giving us the joy that only You can give.  May our joyful hearts reach you each day.  Amen!  

Hopeful Heart

 

A Hopeful Heart.  Hope is one of those words that can be misleading, at least in the Biblical sense.  “I hope so” or “Here’s hoping it happens” are phrases I hear.  It is almost as if hope can be replaced with wish.  I am sure I have said those phrases myself!  Hope, in that context, seems to give off the air of uncertainty.  Maybe what I am hoping for will be attained.  Maybe it will come to fruition.  I am not sure it will occur, but I really wish it does.  Not sure if this is in my future, but I hope it is.

 When we really delve into the word hope, there is so much more there to unpack.    As Christians, hope brings about a much stronger sense of actualization, a stronger sense of certainty.  Our hope is rooted in the Lord.  My friends, there is no ‘wishful thinking’ when it comes to Jesus.  With our Lord, we can move from wishful thinking to confident expectation.  The key word is confident.  When we pray to Jesus, we bring our confident hope that He is listening.  We can stand firmly in the knowledge that He will see us, hear us, answer us, and love us.

 Jesus’ hope is far different than earthly hope.  Jesus’ hope is rooted in the trust we have for Him.  Trusting that God knows best for our lives, we can have confidence that our future will be His plan, as long as we follow where He wants to take us.  When we hope in the Lord, our future is set and our strength is renewed.  This is where the basis of simple faith begins.  I have heard people discuss faith as if it were a difficult thesis that needed to be dissected.  I look at faith in a much more simplistic way.  Hebrews 11:1 says it best, “Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” 

 As Easter approaches, we are reminded of what Jesus did for us, how He fulfilled prophecy, for our souls, for our hearts.  His death on the cross gave us the hope for an eternal life with Him.  Our hope is grounded in the knowledge that we will see Jesus’ face one day.  With that hope, we are able to get through life on earth.  During the difficult and challenging times, when our strength is wavering, we can hope, with confidence and trust, that Jesus will see us through those times.  It may not be the result that we were expecting, but we can be assured that it is the plan that He has for us when we put our hope in Him.

 Hope is there for all of us.   When life has us wondering if we can move forward, fall softly into Jesus’ arms and know that your hope for the future is with Him.  Have simple faith and gain strength from the hope He provides.

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  Dearest Lord, we thank you for being assured that our hope lies in you!  Thank you for giving us confidence for tomorrow and the faith to know you have us in your loving arms.  Amen!

Grateful Heart

 

 

Thank You, Jesus!  It is easy to muster those words when our lives are full of blessings.  Reflect upon the times when you thanked Jesus for His goodness.  Could those words have been shared to Jesus when you received great results on a health condition?  Did you possibly give thanks to Jesus after completing and delivering that very difficult work presentation?  Upon the delivery of a healthy baby, did you reach out to praise Jesus?  Maybe it was the milestone wedding anniversary where thanks to Jesus parted from your lips.

Today’s verse, though, is stating that we should always give thanks for EVERYTHING.  Not just the good times, but the difficult times as well.  This mirrors up with 1 Thessalonians 5:18 which states to “Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”  My friends, it may be more challenging to muster a thank you to Jesus during those times, the times of waiting.

• Waiting on the results of a health condition is not only painful physically, but mentally.  Waiting puts a strain on our soul and can put a strain on our faith.  Jesus, why are you letting this happen to me? 
• Preparing for that work presentation may have meant sleepless nights, tons of revisions, and could have produced a sense of self-doubt in your ability.  Jesus, why are you letting this happen to me?
• Delivering a healthy baby could have been the result of years of waiting to get pregnant.  That waiting and trials can erode one’s faith.  Jesus, why are you letting this happen to me?
• Rejoicing in a milestone wedding anniversary resulted in a challenging relationship journey, filled with times of miscommunication and lack of respect that begged to wonder if the marriage should continue.  During those times doubt crept in.  Jesus, why are you letting this happen to me?

Choosing gratitude in difficult times, in times of waiting is hard.  It is normal to question Jesus during the challenging situations in our lives.  My friends, it is during those times that Jesus is there for us.  Just the fact that you can go to Jesus with your questions, with your pain, and with your doubts is reason for gratitude.  He is always there for us, listening to us, and providing us comfort in the chaos of life.  His grace is always present.  Giving Him praise that He has our lives under control and that there is a path forward that is best for us is the simple faith we need to hold on to each day.

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Dearest Jesus, remind us to give thanks for ALL that is happening in our lives – to blessings and the challenges.  Your path for our lives is one that will always be revealed to us, in Your time.  Amen.

Repentant Heart

 

Moving along with our Lenten series, this week we focus on a repentant heart.  Have to share, sometimes I forget that God knows everything!  Yes, I am always aware that He sees all that I do, but I have to be jolted into remembering that He also knows all that I think!  During my daily prayers, I tend to ‘ask’ God for things – healing those that are hurting, providing direction during uncertainty, covering my family with blessings and peace.  My focus in prayer is not always on asking God for forgiveness, which I certainly should be doing daily!  When I do go to God with a repentant heart, I typically will ask for forgiveness in the things/actions that I did or did not do that go against His will for me.  Speaking harshly to someone out of frustration.  Not going the extra mile when I should have.  The list is long! 

Where I am deeply remiss is asking God for forgiveness in my ‘thinking’ sins, ways that my mind may have gone astray during the day, when my mind should have been on Godly thoughts.  When I have bad thoughts about someone or a situation.  When my pride takes over my mind instead of humility.  When I am distracted from Godly focus, such as when I am in devotion.  Again, the list is long of areas where I should be bringing those to God as well, items of the heart.

There are numerous verses in the Bible that focus on God’s forgiveness.  When I ask for God’s forgiveness, it is always with a heart filled with shame.  “I did not meet your expectations, God.  Please forgive me.”  I am ashamed of my thoughts and behavior.  What I absolutely love about this verse is the invitation to return to God, not out of shame, but out of love.  Here we are reminded that He is gracious and compassionate, ABOUNDING IN LOVE!  His love is so great for us that our broken heart of sin is quickly restored by God to a heart of love.

Friends, during this Lenten season, may we remember that our Lord is a gracious Savior, filled with love, grace, and compassion for us sinners.  Go to Him.  Share your sins.  Be restored with His love and grace.  Have simple faith that He is waiting to hear from us!

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Dearest Lord, thank you for your love that covers all my sins.  May I come to you with a repentant heart, filled with humility and may you restore my heart to one of love – for You and others.  Amen!

Softening Heart

 

As we continue our Lenten Series of giving our hearts to Jesus, we come upon the topic of a Softened Heart.  Over the years, I have felt as if my heart has hardened.  My ability to release bitterness, forgive, or even have empathy seemed to deteriorate.  I could blame my hardened heart on a variety of external factors. 

There have been people close to me who have hurt me or have wronged me.  Seeping into my heart was a sense of betrayal.  Why would they treat me like this?  If they cared about me, if they loved me, how could they share such hurtful words?  In my attempt to stop this from happening, I found myself putting up barriers or ‘hardening my heart’ so that the hurt could not enter.  If I kept these folks at arm’s length, then I would not feel the hurt.

There have also been times when my pride took over.  What could have been mine, or should have been mine, did not materialize.  Those occasions have typically been associated with work.  I have worked hard; I deserved to be recognized.  I knocked it out of the ballpark; I deserved a raise.  Have you had thoughts such as those race through your mind?  In contrast, if I hardened my heart, I found my pride taking over and a level of humbleness would disappear.

As my heart grew like stone, my resentment increased.  Although external factors may have caused me to feel this way, I had control over my heart at the barriers I was putting up.  These barriers were not just put up to those around me, they were also increasing a chasm between God and me.  I felt distanced from God.  And I should have felt that way.  God does not want us to have a heart of stone.  He does not give us that heart, He gives us a new heart, with a new spirit.  My friends, that is the heart from God.

How can we change our heart of stone to one of flesh?  Prayer.  By going to God and asking for His help, we are able to release the resentment, the stone, the pain and fill it with forgiveness and love.  God is in our hearts, waiting for us to come to Him.  All we need to do is hold Him close to us and know that He is there.  When I finally let go of the resentment I had for a person or a situation, I found peace!  Only God can give us peace that will fill our hearts. 

It is time, friends, especially during this Lenten season.  Open your heart.  Let go of bitterness.  Let a new spirit enter and let God turn your heart of stone to one of flesh.  Peace will cover you like a blanket.  All you need is simple faith!

Video complementing this post:  Softening Heart

Heavenly Father, we know we can go to heart for a new heart and a new spirit.  Help us to put our hardened hearts aside and fill us with forgiveness, releasing bitterness for peace.  In your name we pray, Amen!

Listening Heart

 

Welcome to Lent 2026!  There are so many ways Christians honor this time of year.  Many choose to give up something of meaning (sweets, cursing, etc.).  Certain years, I have focused on giving up bad habits.  This year, I would like you to follow on my Lenten journey of Hearts for Jesus.  During the next few weeks, I will be focusing on ways we can prepare our hearts during this Lenten season.  This week, we start with a Listening Heart.  I adore this passage for today where Samuel speaks these words to God, “Speak, for your servant is listening.”

So often on life’s journey, I want God to talk to me.  I want Him to answer my prayers, my questions, and my concerns by opening up the heavens, sending a beam of light on my face, and talking to me.  Doesn’t that sound lovely?  Just as He did with Samuel, He would say, “Susan, Susan” and my response would be “I’m listening”!  Sounds too good to be true.  Is God really going to do that for me?

I believe He does.  Yes, I believe He parts the skies to speak to me.  My problem is I am not the one who truly listens!  My husband and I were having this conversation the other day where we discussed whether God really speaks to us.  It may not be as dramatic as I would like it to be, yet I do believe God’s voice avails itself to us.  Our problem is we have our hearts and souls ready to receive His voice.

You may be saying, “Of course, I am ready to hear God, Susan.  He just does not speak to me.”  Let us take a look at the following:

**Quiet – How often do you find yourself in quiet moments?  When we genuinely want to listen to someone, that means our attention needs to be fully given to the other person.  Other distractions need to be quieted so we can listen intently.  Are you giving God moments in your day where it is quiet so He can speak to you?

**Not Busy – Are you saying to yourself, “I’m just too busy”?  Days can seem as if they are never ending, with responsibilities, chores and busyness taking our time from sunrise to sunset.  Trying to unbusy yourself may seem like a huge chore.  We will always have things to do, my friends.  Shouldn’t we be more like Mary than Martha?  If scheduling your days is important to you, how about scheduling some time for God and not rushing past His importance in your life?

**Reception – Is your heart ready to receive what God is speaking?  Our hearts need to be ready to receive whatever God is saying to us.  Sometimes, that may be in contradiction to what we want to hear from God.  I want prayers answered MY way.  I want answers to coincide with MY thinking.  Friends, God’s way is good – ALL THE TIME!  When we listen to God, we will hear HIS way, the best way.

As we look to move our hearts towards a listening heart, may we find ways to quiet our hearts, unbusy our hearts and ensure our hearts are open to receive what God is saying to us.  He is speaking to each of us in ways that we will understand.  Our goal is to have the heart that will say, “Speak, for your servant is listening.” 

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Heavenly Father, thank you for speaking to me.  May I have a listening heart to receive what you want to tell me.  Help me to quiet myself, make my time unbusy for you, and receive YOUR words into my heart.  Amen!

Reflect Love

 

As we end our short series on love, we end with how God wants us to live our lives, in love.  Understanding God’s love for us is a critical starting point for living a life focused on God.  This is where we began this journey.  Moving to an insight on how we action His love for us was our focus last week.  Today, we will review how we can reflect God’s love in who we are, both to others here on earth and to God!

This verse begins with “And what does the Lord require of you?”  This is where we pick up how we can portray our dedication to God.

Act Justly – God gave us the commandments and a Bible that clearly helps us to determine right from wrong.  When He asks us to act justly, that is what He is requiring of us.  Our actions should be clear to those around us and to God, that we fully understand the difference between right and wrong and live our lives in a way that portrays that.  Is it always easy? No!  Are we sinners?  Yes!  Yet, our goal should always be to act justly.

Love Mercy – This is close to what we discussed last week, showing people love!  This consists not only of what we do to others but also what we don’t do to others.  Quick to negatively respond, outbursts, comment without understanding – all of those scenarios and many more can lead to not showing people love.  To love with mercy in our hearts and to share that love with others will always be God’s way.  Look how He loves us!

Walk Humbly – Walking with an assurance that everything we have and all that we are is from God helps us to walk humbly.  Again, not an easy task, but one that we all should continue to strive towards.  We are nothing without our Lord.  It is our responsibility to ensure we give praise and thanksgiving “in all circumstances”.  Often, those around us have difficulty with our praise to God, especially during challenging times.  It is this love for God that helps us to walk humbly, knowing we are nothing without our Savior.

Friends, our walk in love starts with the wonderful example of how God loves us.  He shows us, He teaches us, He tells us and He walks beside us to help us on this journey.  It’s hard, but our goal of living our Jesus’ love to others around us with a sense of right/wrong, with mercy and with humility will help us to love as God loves us.  I know I fail at walking on this journey time and time again.  I also know that God is waiting for me, knowing I will fall, and is ready to pick me up to continue the walk in love.  May we find comfort in the simple faith that God will always be there – loving us!

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Heavenly Father, thank you for helping us to understand how to reflect the love that you so abundantly provide to us.  May you help us on this journey to share Your love with all that we meet.  Amen!

Love Others

 

Continuing the ‘love’ theme this week, we move from God’s love for us to our love for others.  I thought this verse was particularly appropriate as we search to express love to others.  As I wake up each morning, I strive to live my day with God’s love shown to others through me.  As much as I may reflect to ensure my actions spoke my faith loud and clear throughout the day, I can’t say that is always the case.  In fact, I can guarantee it is not.  Good intentions are taken over by lack of patience, pride and a myriad of other behaviors that are not God’s love in action.

This verse made me step back to think about what actioning God’s love really means. 

• ·       Paul is very clear from the first word in this verse that I need to “do”.  Not reflect, not plan, not ‘make a list’, but get up and DO!  Time to act!
• ·       The next word is just as powerful – EVERYTHING.  Paul states that it is not my role to pick and choose what I want to do in love, but that all my actions are rooted in love!  Tall order, isn’t it?
• ·       Lastly, the word of the week, LOVE!  Paul isn’t giving us an option of acting with kindness or empathy or productivity.  He wants us to do everything in love. 

We have a wonderful example of this in Jesus.  Jesus did everything in love, from His birth to His death.  His actions, His words, His gestures, all came from love.  He loved every person He encountered, even when the world told Him not to.  Friends, it is this example that we need to follow. 

It may be difficult to action love in all aspects of our lives.  People have hurt us, rejected us, or maybe even abused us.  We all have situations that have affected our lives and build us into the people we are today.  Yet our Lord is asking us to live as He lived and not let the devil take over our lives.  We will stumble and fall.  I know I certainly have in pursuing the mission of doing everything in love.  Jesus knows that and is ready to pick us up, dust us off and have us continue on the love path.

Take some time to think about how we can show love in everyday aspects of our lives.  While making a child’s lunch put in a note to let them know you love them.  Instead of picking up your phone to scroll through social media, call a friend.   If you are going to get a coffee, ask a colleague to go with you.  While saying grace over dinner, give thanks for not just the food, but the people you are eating with.  Love can be actioned in so many ways.  Let us get moving and do everything in love!

Video that complements this post:  Love Others

Dearest Jesus, thank you for being a wonderful example how we can do everything in love.  May the Holy Spirit move us to walk in this way.  Amen!

God's Love

 

It is time for a little love!  As we enter February, I will be taking the first three weeks of the month (prior to Lent) to focus on love.  We certainly need a bit more love in our lives these days.  When I look around, or turn on the news, my heart breaks for all that I see and hear about.  Bringing love to the forefront of our thoughts and actions, regardless of our circumstances, is something God asks us to do.

This week, we are focusing on God’s love for us.  God’s love is uncomprehensible to me.  It is hard to imagine love without any conditions.  A love that is not hurt when the recipient turns their back.  A love that loves us at our worst.  As humans, as sinners, no matter how hard we try, unconditional love is tough.  Today’s verse sends forth such a powerful message of God’s love.  Let us unpack it.

1)      “. . . God shows His love. . .”  God acts on His love for us.  He does not idly stand by and says He love us; He does something about it!!  Isn’t that just like God?  There is no idling with God – He is an action type of God.

 

2)      “. . . while we were still sinners. . .”  His action is taken not while we were ‘good,’ but while we were sinners.  Friends, throughout the day, although we may try to stand up to the devil, sin takes over.  It is hard to love someone when they have sinned against us.  When someone hurts us, physically or emotionally; when someone disappoints us; when someone turns their back on us, it is tough to come back and love them.  But God is not us, God is not human.  He showed His love for us while we were sinners!!

 

3)      “. . . Christ died for us. “There is the action that was taken!  While we were sinning, while we were turning our backs on God, God actioned His love for us by giving His only Son to us – to DIE for us.  Jesus spent 33 years on earth only to know that He would walk to Calvary, for us!  His death and His resurrection are the greatest actions of love to us sinners.

It is hard to imagine showing love to another human after great hurt or disappointment.  Showing God’s kind of love to those people?  Not possible.  That is the truth!  Only God could love us like this.  We will always have His love, even if love is not present for us here on earth.  I remember praying for love, for a relationship, for someone to come into my life.  A wonderful friend Barbara shared with me that I have someone like that already – my dear God.  What a wonderful reminder from her that God’s love for us is greater than anything on earth.  We need to have simple faith to know God’s love is always with us.

 

Video that complements this post:  God's Love

Dear Lord, thank you for your unconditional and ever-present love for us.  Amen!

The Word

 

A few years ago, I challenged my staff at the beginning of the year to select a word that they were going to focus on for the year.  Each of them selected a great word to be their driving force as the year unfolded.  There were times throughout the year that we would go back to those words for guidance.

When we turn the calendar page on the new year, there are many expectations we can set for ourselves.  As the days and weeks progress throughout the year, we can easily lose our focus in achieving these expectations.  Many times, this can be reflective of lack of time and energy.

Selecting a word for focus can drive actions, incorporating our time and energy.  I don’t know about you, but selecting just one word can be difficult.  There are many words I would like to be my driving force.  Friends, let us not forget the blog post from a couple of weeks ago – our goal for self-improvement needs to begin with the One who made us, God.  If we spend time reflecting in His Word, I believe that we will find the word we need to be our ‘front and center’ for 2026.

My mother had many favorite Bible verses, but this one always rose to the top.  I have to share; it is one of my favorites as well.  It is the verse that I keep at the forefront, realizing that the plans that Jesus has for me will always bring me closer to who I should be in Him.  His plans are never to bring harm, but hope.  As we round out our focus this month on how to face 2026, I am going to challenge all of us to open our Bibles and chat with Jesus.  Ask Him where the focus should be for you in this new year. 

God may be sharing that it is time to have true FAITH in Him and Him alone.  Is it time to SURRENDER all your sins and not take them back from Jesus?  Jesus may be helping you to gain the COURAGE to move forward in your life, to achieve His plan.  Whatever may speak to you, find the verses that can help to lift you up on this 2026-word journey.  Write them on cards and put them in places where you can see them every day.  Make them the screen saver on your devices. 

Don’t forget to find a way to hold yourself accountable.  Sharing your word journey with a friend is always helpful.  Spend time journaling on the progress you have made with your word.  Bring your word and your actions to Jesus in prayer and listen to what He has to say to you.  We can do this, friends!  I’m challenging myself as well.  Feel free to share your word with me – I’d love to hear the power of Jesus in action! 

Let us have the simple faith that Jesus will set our plans to His desires.  He will walk beside us as we walk in His journey.

Video that complements this post:  The Word

Dearest Jesus, thank you for setting our plan for us.  Help us to identify the direction you want for us and continue to walk with us as we do Your will and walk in Your way.  Amen!