Give Up Malicious Words

 

As we proceed through our Lenten series, our next step is in the arena of Giving Up Malicious Words.  This is a tall order, especially as we reflect on the definition that is provided in Ephesians.  Our days are filled with not only joy and happiness, but sometimes with frustration and anger.   Typically, it is during those times that we may find words actually leaving the ‘safety’ of our heads and actually coming out of our mouths.  These words fall into many distinct categories.

·       Using God’s name in vain.  Remember the third commandment?  I cannot tell you how many times I hear, “Oh My God,” and trust me, they are not praising our Lord! 

·       Profanity.  Growing up, it was not tolerated in our home, on television, or even on the radio.  Today it is more accepted than ever.  It falls into people’s conversations so quickly.  When I have asked folks why it is so prevalent in their vocabulary, in return I hear, “That’s just the way I talk.”

·       Malicious words.  This is when bad thoughts that are in our head find their way to our mouths, hurting the person with whom we are speaking.  These words run the spectrum from projecting hurt and anger on another person to critical criticism with a tone of judgment.

·       Gossip.  Sharing harsh words about someone, even though it is not to their face, can be destructive as well.

As I reflect on the above, I know I have fallen prey to all of them, and I certainly do not say that with a sense of pride.  Malicious, hurtful, profane words never build up our fellow person.  They are rooted in negativity and evil.  They permeate our society today and can seem ‘acceptable.’

This is not our how Lord wants us to speak with each other.  From using God’s name in vain, to profanity, to malicious/gossiping words, God never wants us to build these words into our vocabulary.  Think about all the times Jesus could have used profanity or malicious words against his enemies!  Yet, even as they were crucifying Him on the cross, He uses words of forgiveness and hope, “Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do.” 

As we walk through our time on earth, we meet hundreds if not thousands of people.  Think about how many people your words touch, from family members to the grocery store clerk.  People are listening to us – yes, even your children are listening!  It is important to spend time lifting up words of support, kindness, and compassion.  Even how we provide ‘feedback’ can be given in a way to build people up versus being critical in nature.  Let US be the change the world needs.  Let US be Jesus’ voice on earth!  Give up malicious words and replace them with words of positivity!

Heavenly Father, you have taught us from the time of Adam and Eve that malicious words to others are not how we should behave.  Help us to reflect on what and how we speak to others and may our words always provide an opportunity to build people up!  Amen.